For Jason and I, AP means that:
We got rid of our books that teach baby training such as Baby Wise and The Baby Whisperer.
We feed Renee on cue not on a schedule. This is usually when she makes a sucking noise. She does not normally cry for food.
Renee sleeps next to us in a co-sleeper. She naps on our bed and we usually lay beside her to help her fall asleep.
We have a crib but we don't use it. We don't use our playpen either but it holds a lot of toys.
We like to wear Renee in a sling but due to my arthritis it is not always possible so I like to keep Renee by me in the swing or I sit with her on the couch or bed.
We understand and respect that other people parent differently.